Friday, 11 July 2014

Yes #5: National Citizen Service

The NCS was such a fantastic experience, getting to meet so many new people and getting to do so many things you never would usually get to do.
Heres how the four weeks went:

Week 1
The first week was a residential trip to an activity centre in the Isle of Wight called Little Canada. As it was in the IOW, it meant we had to get the ferry across so we met up at the ferry station. I started the experience not knowing one person at all who was doing it too, so I stood with some girls when I first arrived. After a few minutes, I looked around and spotted someone I knew from school, so I soon went over to say hey. Its fair to say I felt so relived that I actually knew someone! And after not long, another girl arrived who I knew from school who I also stayed with on the school ski trip, so I felt much more relaxed. They both arrived with other people, but I soon became friends with them.
After a half an hour ferry ride and a 15 minute drive, we arrived at the activity centre. We were told about the week and taken to our rooms. I shared a room with the girl I knew from school and her friend so that was good fun!
We were split into 4 groups and each group had one of the adult leaders and we stayed in the groups for the four weeks. They just ment that the groups for each activity were reasonable sizes. Thankfully, the group I was in was with the two people I already knew and their friends and 4 others.
Throughout the week we did different activites such a rok climbing, absailing, tunnel trails, zip wires, giant swings, kyaking, dragon boating and matrix. I went to this activity centre when I was in junior school and matrix was my favourite thing ever so to get to relive that again was incredible! But every activity we did was incredible!
Inbetween activities and in the evening we had time to chill with eachother so I was able to make friends with a lot of other people. One of the great things was standing in the area infront of the huts and all standing in a circle throwing a rugby ball to eachother playing one-knee-two-knee.

Week 2
The second week we spent living at Reece Halls which is a set of university living halls in Portsmouth for students but because it was the summer holidays, it meant that we were able to stay there. We each had our own room which was great, but I ended up sleeping in my friends room for the week anyway.
The rest of that day, we were in our groups and had a little survey to go and do around Portsmouth. But we didnt have a out original team leader, we had a different one because they other one had to go back to work unfortuantly, but this one was fab too! We all discovered that apart from 4 of us in our group, we all went to the same senior school including our team leader!


Throughout this week, each day we did a different thing.
The first day we went to the study centre which was next to Portsmouths football ground. Throughout the day we did three different activites with people from different companies. One of the activities was to go and look around Portsmouths football ground, Fratton Park, but instead of looking round, we just sat and watched the team train on the field which was great!
Another of the days we went to Portsmouth University where we did a day of team building activities with some of the students there.
In the evenings, we would either have chill out time in the living area and garden in the university halls or a small evening activity. One of the activities was first aid training and another was learning about STI's, but they were both done in a fun way. After we went out for dinner at a diferent restaurant every night which was really nice!

Week 3 and 4
The last two weeks were spent in the study centre where we worked as groups to organise a fundraising event for a charity of our choice. We had a few ideas such as a blind walk along the beach for Portsmouth's Blind Association but in the end we made contact with a curry restaurant where we held a curry night with a raffle where we raised around £500 for the Beneficial Foundation who give support to people with disabilities in leading a normal life and finding work.


This week was really interesting because where everyone was doing a different charity, we found out about so many different charities and the amazing things they do. Also throughout this week I made some new friends as I worked with people who I hadn't really spoken to originally in the last two weeks.

Graduation
If you complete the whole four weeks of NCS, you get to graduate with a certificate.
The graudation was great because it meant we got to dress up all fancy and meet up with everyone again and just have a really good night!


Overall the NCS was a great experience for me and I'm SO glad that I said yes to it!
You can get involved with your local NCS trips by just going to the NCS website!
If you have been on NCS trips, you are on one currently or you are going on one this summer, let me know how it goes in the comments! I'd love to know what you get up to in your local area with the NCS!

Don't be afraid,

Say Yes!

Saturday, 5 April 2014

Yes #5: National Citizen Service

In my last few weeks of school, a man came in and talked to my year group about the National Citizen Service (NCS) and the opportunities they give teenagers.

The NCS gives 16-17 year olds an opportunity to build new work and life skills whilst taking on big challenges and and meeting lots of new friends.
They take you on a four week course where you will have two weeks away from home; one taking part in different challenges such as rock climbing and dragon boating and the second living in university halls and getting a taste of university life, and two weeks where you will take part in a team project to help your community.
During the four weeks, you take on new challenges and learn new skills, grow your confidence and your CV, make a difference in your community and make new friends. 
At the end of the four weeks, you graduate with a certificate.

NCS in 60 seconds

As soon as the course was explained to us, I knew I wanted to do it, so there and then, I went and spoke to the man, James Shannon, and signed up.
None of my friends wanted to do it, but that didn't bother me. After all the stuff I had already said yes to, this would be nothing too scary.

My experiences of the four weeks will be up soon!

Don't be afraid,

Say Yes!

Yes #4: Skiing in Saalbach, Austria

Before I had found out about the Caring Cancer Trust and got involved with their ski trips, going skiing is something I always wanted to do. It was one of them things on my bucket list.

My senior school did ski trips every year but we could just never really afford to go.
In year 9, a few of my friends went on the ski trip and I did want to go but I just knew we didn't have the money, but then I mentioned it to my mum when the opportunity to come up to go on the next trip and she offered to scrape some money together so that I could go, purely because I had never been abroad with the school and my sister went twice when she was in school so mum thought it was only fair.
 Unfortuantly, I was late to get a place so I was put on the waiting list and never did get a place on that trip, but it meant I was guarenteed a place on the trip in year 11, and so I went..


I was so so so nervous because as much as I knew some of the people going, I wouldn't say I was close friends with them and I never really spoke to them much and none of my own friends were going. It was possibly the biggest step out of my comfort zone I have ever taken!
When I got on the coach, I just sort of sat in a seat on my own because I didn't know anyone to sit next to. Not long after, the two girls, Megan and Jodie, I knew most on the trip got onto the coach and Megan had her sister with her, Rhiannon, a year 8 who also didn't know anyone on the trip apart from her sister so she sat next to me and Megan and Jodie sat on the other side of the isle. It took a while to get talking, but after an hour or so we couldn't stop. All three of them made me feel so comfortable!

It took twenty-something long hours on the coach with long chats, uncomfortableness and a lack of sleep before we arrived in Saalbach, Austria and were greeted by these stunning views!




When we arrived at our hotel, I found I was sharing a room with three other girls, Molly, Aimee and Rhia, three girls who I'd never really said more than a few words to but who all already knew each other.. But they made me feel so relaxed and at ease straight away and I ended up really enjoying sharing a room with them!
Althought I did feel bad because I always got the hot shower and they all managed to get the cold shower.. (everyone in the hotel showered as soon as we got back everyday so the hotel's hot water ran out SO quickly but I managed to time my showers just right and get the hot water, I was just super lucky I guess).


Over the week, I became friends with a lot more people on the trip and become really quite close with Molly (in the picture above) and Rhiannon. I ended up having such a good week with everyone despite being really nervous and not knowing any of them at the start!



The teachers who took us were absoloutely amazing, especially Miss Nineham. I had a few shakey moments throughout the trip, being ill, mild panic attacks on the slopes etc, but she stuck by me the whole time making sure I was okay and she was my rock through that week. I had a really close bond with her back at school after the trip too and I couldn't thank her enough for the amount she has helped me really.


One main story that really made me laugh throughout the week is that some how a rumour (which I really wish was true!) had got out that I was a professional snowboarder and I had won gold medals in world championships and things..
I remember telling one or two people that I had snowboarded the year before and I was going again the day after we got home, but somehow that esculated into this story and so many people were asking me all different questions about it and I really really don't know how it got so big!
It did make my week though, it was so funny!



As well as skiing, we got to go to different places in the evenings such as a party, a big massive (and I must say amazing!) swimming pool and to watch a game of professional ice hockey.
The ice hockey was actually really intersting! Even though I can't remember who was actually playing and who won.. haha! It's such an underated sport in the UK!

Overall, as much as I was nervous and scared at the start of the week, I had such a brilliant week and it was spent with brilliant people and I am SO glad that I stepped out of my comfort zone and I said yes and went on this trip because it was an amazing experience and it has built me up so much and gave me the confidence to do so much more on my own!
One thing I did learn was I am a dreadful skiier and ski boots are the worlds most uncomfiest things.. I'll stick to snowboarding from now on!



Are you ever too scared to do things or go places without your friends? Don't be! It's really not worth relying on other people to go with. You can still have an amazing time on your own and meeting new people!

Don't be afraid,

Say Yes!